This was my reply to a message sent by one of my friends, who I really appreciate. JAK my friend :)
I thought of sharing this reply with others,may be it finds it's way to their hearts and be useful by any means.
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WALAHY klamek sa7 ya fandem, 3andk 7a2, e7na f3laaan one of our problems that we love GOD with our minds only, because we HAVE to, w 3shan e7na etrbana 3la kdda....."lazm nkoon bn7b rbna".
Our schools and parents el 7amdoellah brought us up saying to us "fih naar ,w fih gnaaaah, w fih Rasol 3laih el slat wel salam, w fih ALLAH"...we know & believe it without feeling it.
We didn't feel this love, and we will never feel it except after we actually know GOD. "ezay momkn t7by 7ad enty asasn mt3rfihooosh??"
and it's the same thing about saidna Mohamed "3laih el slat w el salam", you have to read a sira book to know him and you will LOVE LOVE LOVE him. WALAHY it makes a HUGE difference in your feeling towards him after knowing him a little by reading about him.
and to know GOD:
1) we have to read kor2aan a lot, because reading kor2an will open your mind to new things u didn't know before, w haythbet ktiiiir men el FACTS el t3rfiha 3an el diin "will ensure u about any action you do, that u weren't sure if it was right or wrong. ex. the HIGAB, after reading kor2an I was sure it's a must"
w kman you have to read it continuously, msh mara w khlas, because at every new time you read it, you will have a totally new journey , discovering new things you didn't know or notice before.
you may read the same verse "AYA" twice or thrice, and you will have a new information and thought about it each time. AS if ALLAH is opening a new room in your mind every time u read it. a new yellow lamp is lighten in your mind, related to something in your life, giving u the chance to believe more. As if this AYA is talking to you specifically and to your case.
2) We have to know and Understand his NAMES and sfaaaat "features", أسماء الله الحسنى. By reading any book about them.
3) We have to think about ALLAH, and what he did to us in our lives "which is everything ".
--And then after understanding his names and ssfaaat, and relating everything happened to us to him.
isA u then will feel with you heart & know and believe , ad eh rbna gamiiiiiiil , w kariiim, w tayb, w bay7bna w baykhaf 3laina aktar mn ay 7aad tany.
WALAHY s3teha ht7s b enik mttmn w msh 3ayz ay 7aga mel donya tany, w enik nfsik tro7lo , w en el Donya di wala 7aga. ht7ss bel 7NAAAAAN . bgd walahy.
you won't be worry about your future, diseases, good money, good grades, good Job.
{ I had this feeling twice in my life, just by reading kor2an and thinking about ALLAH, but unfortunately these feelings didn't continue with me. Probably because I am not a good person, and our mistakes prevent our hearts from feeling حلاوة الإيمان
But you can try it, w isA you will feel and know what I am talking about. I guess you already had this feeling more than me :D }
* There are these very useful TIPs, that work with many people and help them to keep continously on the right track." لتثبت على الألتزام"
1)you have to charge your heart by watching or attending a frequent religious lesson (ex. Mustafa hosny's , or Hazm Shoman lessons, or any other da3ya islamya). Attending FREQUENTLY these lessons has a HUGE effect on keeping your self away from doing mistakes, reminding your self, & adding new useful information.
w tb3an I don't need to mention El Thwaab el 3aziiim for attending or watching or listening to these lessons. :)
2)try to have a daily reading of Kor2an. any amount of reading , even if it was one page every day. EL MOHM yb2a fiiih werd kol yoom isA :)
3)you HAVE to avoid anything that encourages you to do mistakes. Every one of us has a specific mistake, that he always do. And there are some actions that usually encourages him to do this mistake, so you MUST AVOID these actions that encourage you to do the mistake, even if you have been a long time since you did this mistake.
ex.
واحد كان بيدخن, و ربنا هداه و مبئاش بيدخن لمدة 7-10 شهور, فهو أفتكر أنه جامد أمام السجاير و المعصية و كل يوم بيخرج و يقضي وقته مع مدخنين
في الأخر هيقع تاني في المعصية عشان هو أفتكر نفسه جامد و متجنبش أسباب التشجيع على التدخين
ex.
واحد بيغض بصره, و في الجامعة بيجلس مع بنات , تب إزااااااي :). أكيد في مرة مع الوقت هينظر للبنات.لأن هو مش أقوى من الفتنة.
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الحل هو إعتزال أسباب الفتنة, حتى لا نقع في أي معصية مرة تانية بعد التوبة***********
I thought of sharing this reply with others,may be it finds it's way to their hearts and be useful by any means.
________________________________________________________________
WALAHY klamek sa7 ya fandem, 3andk 7a2, e7na f3laaan one of our problems that we love GOD with our minds only, because we HAVE to, w 3shan e7na etrbana 3la kdda....."lazm nkoon bn7b rbna".
Our schools and parents el 7amdoellah brought us up saying to us "fih naar ,w fih gnaaaah, w fih Rasol 3laih el slat wel salam, w fih ALLAH"...we know & believe it without feeling it.
We didn't feel this love, and we will never feel it except after we actually know GOD. "ezay momkn t7by 7ad enty asasn mt3rfihooosh??"
and it's the same thing about saidna Mohamed "3laih el slat w el salam", you have to read a sira book to know him and you will LOVE LOVE LOVE him. WALAHY it makes a HUGE difference in your feeling towards him after knowing him a little by reading about him.
and to know GOD:
1) we have to read kor2aan a lot, because reading kor2an will open your mind to new things u didn't know before, w haythbet ktiiiir men el FACTS el t3rfiha 3an el diin "will ensure u about any action you do, that u weren't sure if it was right or wrong. ex. the HIGAB, after reading kor2an I was sure it's a must"
w kman you have to read it continuously, msh mara w khlas, because at every new time you read it, you will have a totally new journey , discovering new things you didn't know or notice before.
you may read the same verse "AYA" twice or thrice, and you will have a new information and thought about it each time. AS if ALLAH is opening a new room in your mind every time u read it. a new yellow lamp is lighten in your mind, related to something in your life, giving u the chance to believe more. As if this AYA is talking to you specifically and to your case.
2) We have to know and Understand his NAMES and sfaaaat "features", أسماء الله الحسنى. By reading any book about them.
3) We have to think about ALLAH, and what he did to us in our lives "which is everything ".
--And then after understanding his names and ssfaaat, and relating everything happened to us to him.
isA u then will feel with you heart & know and believe , ad eh rbna gamiiiiiiil , w kariiim, w tayb, w bay7bna w baykhaf 3laina aktar mn ay 7aad tany.
WALAHY s3teha ht7s b enik mttmn w msh 3ayz ay 7aga mel donya tany, w enik nfsik tro7lo , w en el Donya di wala 7aga. ht7ss bel 7NAAAAAN . bgd walahy.
you won't be worry about your future, diseases, good money, good grades, good Job.
{ I had this feeling twice in my life, just by reading kor2an and thinking about ALLAH, but unfortunately these feelings didn't continue with me. Probably because I am not a good person, and our mistakes prevent our hearts from feeling حلاوة الإيمان
But you can try it, w isA you will feel and know what I am talking about. I guess you already had this feeling more than me :D }
* There are these very useful TIPs, that work with many people and help them to keep continously on the right track." لتثبت على الألتزام"
1)you have to charge your heart by watching or attending a frequent religious lesson (ex. Mustafa hosny's , or Hazm Shoman lessons, or any other da3ya islamya). Attending FREQUENTLY these lessons has a HUGE effect on keeping your self away from doing mistakes, reminding your self, & adding new useful information.
w tb3an I don't need to mention El Thwaab el 3aziiim for attending or watching or listening to these lessons. :)
2)try to have a daily reading of Kor2an. any amount of reading , even if it was one page every day. EL MOHM yb2a fiiih werd kol yoom isA :)
3)you HAVE to avoid anything that encourages you to do mistakes. Every one of us has a specific mistake, that he always do. And there are some actions that usually encourages him to do this mistake, so you MUST AVOID these actions that encourage you to do the mistake, even if you have been a long time since you did this mistake.
ex.
واحد كان بيدخن, و ربنا هداه و مبئاش بيدخن لمدة 7-10 شهور, فهو أفتكر أنه جامد أمام السجاير و المعصية و كل يوم بيخرج و يقضي وقته مع مدخنين
في الأخر هيقع تاني في المعصية عشان هو أفتكر نفسه جامد و متجنبش أسباب التشجيع على التدخين
ex.
واحد بيغض بصره, و في الجامعة بيجلس مع بنات , تب إزااااااي :). أكيد في مرة مع الوقت هينظر للبنات.لأن هو مش أقوى من الفتنة.
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الحل هو إعتزال أسباب الفتنة, حتى لا نقع في أي معصية مرة تانية بعد التوبة***********
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